What to expect bila kita cerita masalah kita dekat orang kecuali family. first, mesti kita nak orang tu faham masalah kita. Tapi try to think berapa peratus sebenarnya orang akan bebetul faham masalah kita. katakan lah, katakan. ada orang cerita masalah dia dekat kita. apa kita nak response? mostly, kita akan response "sabarlah" "be strong" "aku faham masalah kau" " i know you hurts" or whatever same like that. tapi tanya hati, does it same goes with your tongue?
itu masalah dia sekarang. Dont easily tell people, your problems. dua je kemungkinan, senyum depan kita, atau ketawa belakang kita. Nak tengok menangis depan kita dan simpati belakang kita tu hmmm jarang kot. Rare.
I kennot brain apa sebenarnya masalah orang yang selalu condemn orang yang ada masalah. Seolah-olah masalah yang orang pikul tu can take it lightly je. "apa sangat la masalah tu" "takkan itu pon jadi masalah" "sendiri hidup, sendiri selesai" then i told you, dont easily tell people your problems. is either troubling you or widening your problems. that's it.
tapi back to reality, tak semua macam tu. dalam hidup kita mesti ada orang yang boleh kita rely on. But do not rely on people too much, not good. we can expect people untuk faham masalah kita but we cant hope orang akan chew on our plate. masalah tu seratus peratus kita sorang je rasa, kita sorang je kena selesaikan. orang lain mungkin boleh bagi moral support, idea on how to solve the problems. the action is on us, totally on us.
its okay to have someone that we can talk. about everything including our dramas and too childish problems. but whatever it is, everyone have their own life. and busy solving their problems too.
how big your problem is. please dont forget to smile